Many people thought about the issue of drinking alcohol, when everyone around them is so "crooked"? The answer is available.You just need to follow a few rules.As everyone knows, the first attempt to quit drinking is not entirely successful for many people.The first failure just makes many people worry and go back to their old way of life.Some people drink 5 times and still come back from alcohol.Why does this happen and how to put an end to it once and for all?
Alcohol addiction
The first thing that a person should understand in general is that alcoholism is a disease and a unique system.This system does not allow a person to get out of alcohol addiction and constantly encourages him to make mistakes because they are wrong.Of course, everyone understands that after a mistake, a person simply gives up and starts drinking again.How does this whole system work and why is it so hard to get out if everything in life starts to get better?I am afraid that many will still get the answer to this question and alcohol will become their enemy.I can say that a month without alcohol will lead to an increase in self-esteem and the body will heal.
In fact, the alcohol system consists of many subsystems that are closely related to each other.
For example, a swing, many understand the features of its work:
- A man sits on a swing and a swing.
- In the swing process, a person is lifted up and the force of gravity acts on him.
- After reaching the upper edge, the same gravity accelerates in the other direction.
Why was a swing pattern given?Because it is an ideal choice for a clear example.
Inertia is another element of all systems.Of course, in childhood, many tried to stop at full speed.But who succeeded?True, usually a few people.This is what alcoholism looks like.First, the first element, inertia, slowly begins to work and work, then gravity and other factors.When a person reaches the peak of alcoholism, he can't stop himself, just like a child swinging at a child.Many people try to get out immediately, but inertia does its job and continues the "swing" movement.
"I can get out of myself in a month" or "I need a boost, in a month I will be as good as new", but at the same time "I will get out of it in a month" - these statements help the system to move forward and favor a person, which will continue to destroy the personality and the body.To break the system, you need to remember the swings again.To go, a person needs to stop swinging, then the inertia becomes smaller and braking begins.Also, in alcoholism, although not immediately, a person will come to the point of complete recovery from alcohol addiction.
Alcohol: A way to relax or a drug trap?
As mentioned above, the whole system is a pendulum that moves on a person until it completely dominates him.After a little shaking, a person falls into an alcoholic trap, where he tries to cover up every problem with alcohol.Of course, it all starts with a bottle of beer or a shot, but in the end the dose reaches the maximum possible for a person.So day by day a person just starts to become an alcoholic.In this case, the pendulum works in the first way: the drink of alcohol is like flying upwards, then when it comes back, it forces the person to drink more, etc.Any of the people who fall under his influence end up drinking more than they had previously planned and thus swinging him even more.It is worth noting that, according to the fathers, a hangover condition is treated with "the same thing that made you sick," which follows: "A wrong hangover means a second binge."In this case, the work of the pendulum is clearly observed, which gradually drags the person into the alcoholic hole.
In the morning, when a hangover leaves, "why did I drink so much, what could I do, everyone drank, everyone drank" or I drank "or I drink", these thoughts are a reason to think about it, this regret is so possible.After such thoughts, a person feels inner dissatisfaction and returns to alcohol as a source of pleasure.Buzzer is at it again, bringing more and more things and more people into the alcohol system.And when it reaches the end point, it means death for a person.
By thinking a little about everything written above, you can understand that you should give up drinking alcohol.Don't wait until you fall into a hole and can't get out of it.Take care of yourself and your loved ones - there is no need for anything alcoholic except for the afterlife.
Deferred function
Each of the people, those who rarely used it, had to treat such a state as "a lot".Many interpreted this in terms of health or emotional state, but in fact alcohol delayed functionality.The state of intoxication does not occur immediately, and a person cannot determine how much he really needs to relieve tension.Many people say, "I can drink my quota" or "I haven't drunk in a month, I can relax", but they are very wrong.Remember, no one knows their rate.There is a famous saying: "One person made a promise, but the other did not fulfill it."It's actually a bit unclear.It is worth clarifying these words using the system of alcoholism.A person under the influence of alcohol is really mentally different;If a person is withdrawn and silent, they can open up and start "being weird".A man, a man said "I'll drink one and go home", but in the end he said "rubbish" in the morning.From the outside, the word is true, because the person was in a sound mind and made a promise that he would have wanted to fulfill in a normal situation.But he has changed a little in a psychological sense, he is a different person who no longer promises anything to anyone.
I'm afraid to go out because I have so many problems" or "I think that alcohol comes to people, but it's a poison that keeps a person's personality.Time to reach a state of alcoholic intoxication.This factor interacts with the delay of action, this factor, this factor, this factor, all other conditions that lead a person to a person and a person to alcohol addiction.
But what can be done to get a person out of binge drinking or addiction.
There are some psychological factors for this:
- Family.
- Job.
- Lack of funds.
- Car.
- Health problems.
All affect a person's decision "to drink or not to drink".At the same time, they disrupt the alcohol system and thereby destroy it.But what does alcohol "do in response"?Worst of all, an alcoholic deceives himself that everything is fine with him, and he will never be too much.He stops succumbing to the influence of close and dear people and thereby convinces them that they are against him.After that, the alcohol system is restored and continues to work on the person's personality.
System destruction
Alcohol addiction is a parasite that takes everything from a person without giving anything in return.Many people find positive factors to use, but remember, they never exist and they never want.Alcohol is a poison that does not kill the alcoholic, but it will push him to violate the Criminal Code, and perhaps even more victims.
In order to drink alcohol rarely or never again, you must destroy the pendulum.This option will begin to return to normal life and stabilize the flow of problems.Many people with a will give up smoking and alcoholism in 1 day, and believe me, they are still terrible with what they did under the influence of alcohol."I'm afraid to go back to it" are any of these words.
The alcohol system, like any other, can be destroyed by hitting the weakest link.And in this case, it is the psychological state of a person.It is this aspect that needs to be addressed in this respect.
Many people said that their parents were always against drinking alcohol at an early age, and some said, "I'm afraid that there will be alcohol."And this is a valid suggestion, but it is necessary to explain why alcohol is so dangerous.But since the psyche of many children works, listen and do the opposite.Therefore, this decision may lead to early use.We may accidentally push our children towards their first bottle or bottle of beer.Also, many people believe that alcoholism cannot be cured, and this thought is quite deep in the head, but more on that later.
Many saw drunkards on the streets, drunkards lying in entrances or under cowardly ones.And then the question arises, why do they not behave?The answer is simple, they just can't.This also happens to people who try to stop drinking on their own.
The first attempt to quit is quite difficult, and the first failure in this matter does not cause any special emotions, because you can try again.But after 5 or 10 attempts, a person begins to understand the bag and what kind of trap he has fallen into.That is why there are special drug treatment knives that give a person an opportunity to recover from addiction and return to society, a normal and balanced person.
Back to the idea of recovering from alcoholism;Deducting from this, we get a vicious circle:
- His thinking seems to be recovering from alcoholism;
- Getting addicted to alcohol, a person does not understand and does not understand the complexity of the situation;
- The person is aware of the problem, but the thought of fixing it turns it into a circle.
Now let's go back to the weakest link, and that is the idea of resilience.Now everything falls to the ground.
All that remains is to get rid of the thoughts and adapt to the treatment.The system is broken, but it will still try to pull back the person who creates thoughts about alcohol.
If a person is strong enough in character and can get rid of this obsessive thought, others should see doctors and undergo inpatient treatment.If he wants to do this after a month for alcohol, you can immediately go to a drug treatment clinic, because it is very difficult to quit drinking on your own.If you do not apply it, then you will be completely drunk, and the month will pass in vain in life, although the meaning will be drinking.
Should I drink alcohol or give it up?It is quite difficult, but possible.Give yourself a month to count down and try not to drink at all.The word "in general" means complete abstinence from any alcoholic beverages, including alcoholic beverages.If you last a month, you can last a lifetime.Pay less attention to people who encourage you to drink so as not to be affected.If you decide to drink to prevent addiction, don't drink too much or pretend you've taken a sip.Visit places where alcoholic beverages are consumed sparingly and completely eliminate alcohol from your diet.Of course, it is difficult to drink in general, but if you drink once a month, then nothing will happen.